“There's something about this program, that fills in gaps, in a way I think the personal development world is missing. It was life-changing in a very good way. It impacted not only myself but also my family and has really transformed how we are together.”
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You promised yourself you'd do things differently.
And in so many ways, you are...
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But your nervous system still reacts like it's protecting you from something you can't explain.Â
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You overreact.
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You shut down.
You feel triggered by people’s needs.
You either snap… or disappear.
And afterward?
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The guilt is unbearable.Â
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You Wonder...
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 Why do I feel like I’m failing, even though I know better?
Why can’t I stay calm?
Why do I feel so alone in this?
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And maybe you’re not a mom yet—but you already know:
You don’t want to pass down what was passed to you.
You want to feel grounded before raising a family.
You want to feel whole before guiding someone else.
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Because deep down, you know:
Healing starts with you.
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“This really IS the missing thing.”
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"Well, this IS the missing thing. I finally feel like I'm not broken, I'm not a burden and I don't need to fix myself. I finally have tools-- tangible tools that actually work. I finally feel hope that things can and will improve and that I am uncovering the wife and mother I always knew was there (my authentic self!) I also feel so much healing and freedom."
Here's the truth:
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This isn’t about willpower or knowing what to do.
This is about your nervous system operating on auto-pilot.
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You’re not unfit. You’re not failing. You’re not beyond help.
You’re just dysregulated—
and no one taught you how to feel safe inside your own body.
This is where The Exclusive Program comes in:
This is not talk therapy.
This is not mindset coaching.
This is not another thing to “fix yourself.”
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This is a somatic, trauma-informed, attachment-based healing experience.
Where we gently meet the parts of you who learned to yell, shut down, numb out, or over-function to survive.
Where your body finally learns what safety feels like—not just what it sounds like.
I'm In!
“Working with Cortney is a one of a kind experience that I am truly grateful for. "
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I have been to numerous traditional talk therapists (and am even a psychotherapist myself), but have never truly felt seen, heard, or understood by any of them. Cortney has given me the knowledge to understand myself better and the tools to help me regulate myself when I am feeling activated.
Prior to this experience I felt ashamed for being in the mental health field and not having it all together myself, but working with a Cortney has helped me to accept that we are all human and to allow myself grace. This whole experience has been priceless and I feel so blessed to have been able to work with her.
Maybe you have been an "overreactive" woman...
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Quick to snap.
Always apologizing.
Carrying deep shame for how easily others trigger you.
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Or you might feel shut down.
Detached in relationships.
Floating through life, unsure how to truly stay present.
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Maybe you're already a mother…
or maybe you know you want to be one someday.
Either way, you're doing the brave work of healing now—
so your future children (or your inner child) won’t have to carry what you did.
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These are nervous system responses.
They make perfect sense.
And they can be healed.
SIGN ME UP!
Inside The Exclusive Program, you'll receive:

20Â One-Hour 1:1Â Sessions
($7,000 value)
You’ll never feel alone in your healing journey, girl. Come to these 1:1 coaching calls with Cortney and find a safe place to somatically process pain so that you can integrate healing in a way that’s different than talk therapy. Take the concepts you’re learning to the next level so that you feel equipped to face triggers and challenges, without feeling lost.


Transformational Healing Workbook (shipped to your door!)
($197 value)
Each week includes its own implementation workbook, specific to the Exclusive program, that will provide you with context and exercises to apply what you're learning and deepen your awareness and understanding in your real life. The workbook is where transformation meets reality. You don’t have to print it yourself, either! It’ll land on your doorstep, ready to use.Â
Somatic Regulation Toolkit
($197 value)
Befriend and reshape your nervous system with these self-regulation and somatic tools. You’ll get to the next level of your healing journey, begin to process uncomfortable sensations, and introduce more safety for your system.


Exclusive Healing Journal Prompts
($97 value)
How would it feel to hold space for your emotions and needs, as opposed to shaming yourself or feeling like a burden? Rediscover your most authentic self and meet yourself with compassion when you self-reflect with any one of these 50+ journal prompts exclusive to clients.
The Drama Triangle Video Series
($497 value)
Deepen your understanding of the most common conflict pattern so that you can be aware of how the nervous system plays a role and how regulation can help you avoid this conflict. Dodge pointless fights, and instead have more patience with your kids, partner or spouse, family, and coworkers!


Trauma's Impact on Brain Video Series
($497 value)
Each one of us has an authentic self - who you were and who God made you to be before the pain or the trauma got ahold of you. Begin to uncover that authentic self by understanding the context of how your brain is affected by stress so that you can claim your power to regulate yourself whenever a stressful moment arises.
1:1 Text and Voice Connection with Cortney
($1,997 value)
We start to heal the moment we feel heard. Get 1:1 text and voice access to Cortney between calls, so that you can feel heard, get unstuck, and receive more support around the concepts you’re learning each week through a walkie-talkie voice and text app for more private and intimate conversations.

Plus, BONUSES!
Emotional Brain Dump Guide
($297 value)
Work through overwhelming events that feel too big to process, by breaking the event down into smaller pieces that feel more manageable to navigate and take action.
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Back Pocket Somatic Toolkit
($97 value)
This simple gameplan is like a somatic regulation toolkit in your back pocket to use whenever you’re under stress. Help yourself in the moment when feeling dysregulated instead of hauling around your binder and being overwhelmed looking through 75+ options.
Sensation Tracker Follow-Along
($97 value)
Strengthen your body’s felt sense of safety by following this somatic sensation tracking exercise.
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14 Exclusive Audio Meditations
($297 value)
Get exclusive access to a compilation of 14 somatic, intergenerational trauma healing, and breathwork meditations, all used to effectively rewire your brain and reshape your nervous system as you gradually move through the healing process.
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Identify the Part E-book
($97 value)
This exclusive workbook, which has only been available to our prior coaching clients, shortens the path to processing triggers and self-healing. You don't have to stay stuck in a state where you’re worried and stressed about the future so often, or as if everyone is against you. Instead, pull yourself out of feeling defeated, self-regulate instead of only depending on others, and show yourself grace and self-love.
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Somatic Tool Video Demos
($97 value)
Just in case you need the reminder, these video demonstrations provide you a quick reference on how to apply a somatic tool to your real life whenever you feel stressed in the moment.
Let's recap what you get in this 1:1 experience!

The Exclusive Program includes:
“The investment is worth it!”
"I think about stewarding the resources of my life, and how this investment in my healing and freedom from strongholds gives me the capacity to freely serve God more fully. Trust that your investment in this program will expand your ability to make the positive impact you want to make on the people around you."Â
 “Changed my entire life, changed my children’s lives, changed my marriage, changed every relationship! It saved me, I feel like I have been set free.”
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Having Cortney each week to talk out the highs and the lows. To run to when I tried using my tools but I was still falling apart, to remind me that healing is a journey. I had constant support, which in the beginning I was scared to use….and we worked through that too! Again, it changed my life and my entire family’s life.Â
Meet Your Somatic Integration Practitioner
Hi, I'm Cortney!
I’m so glad you’re here.
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I’m the founder of You Can Heal with Us. I’ve invested hundreds of hours in mastering my skills as a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and trauma-informed coach from top trauma experts like Dr. Peter Levine, Diane Poole Heller, Dr. Stephen Porges, Frank Anderson and Deb Dana.
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I’m on a mission to help highly resilient and ambitious women just like you feel empowered to heal from past traumas.
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When I first started my healing journey, I didn’t know that my anxiety and insomnia were the result of how unsafe I felt in my body. In fact, none of my doctors or mental health practitioners even mentioned my body.
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Can you relate?
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I know how exhausting it is to feel like you're doing all the right things- reading the books, listening to all of the podcasts, going to talk therapy but still feeling so stuck in the same old patterns.Â
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It's my mission to make sure women like you get to the root of their dysregulation, gain the skills necessary to change patterns for good and experience the transformation and healing they desire.
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I've helped 100s of men and women do this and I'm excited to help you do the same!
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Watch Cortney's StoryAnswers You Need to Make an Informed Choice
I’ve already done talk therapy or I’ve already worked with a life coach. How does this fit in?
Sounds like this is going to take a lot of time I don’t have. Is it worth it?
What is Somatic Experiencing®?
How is Somatic Experiencing® different from other somatic approaches?
How much access will I get to Cortney?
I still have questions. How can I get in contact?
Working with Cortney has been the best investment and has changed the entire course of my life.Â
For the first time in my adult life I feel safe, I feel seen, I feel peace. I understand who I am at the core and have countless resources to continue my healing journey. I believe whole heartedly in Cortney and this program and cannot recommend this enough. Please do this for yourself, it will be so worth it!
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I have previously tried to work through things that have happened in my past with talk therapists, but I found myself still feeling like I was broken. This program provided me with tools and exercises to actually start healing. The program made me realize that I have the power to pull myself out of my anxious/sympathetic state. I don't have to stay in a state where I'm worried and stressed about the future so often. I also have the power to pull myself out of my defeated/dorsal state, so that I don't have to feel like everyone is against me and the future won't pan out the way I want it to.”
I am the girl who has tried it all -- from years of therapy offices and reading every self help book known to man to oils, crystals and affirmations -- I have been on the hunt for my healing for the last decade. While all those modalities have been important in my path to healing, none has been as impactful as the coaching program I invested in with Cortney.
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She has a way of speaking directly to the places that used to get me stuck before so that they could be seen and healed once and for all. I finally feel like I am off the rollercoaster.
She helped me to look at my story in a new way, while giving me ways to support my body for real forward movement, which has in turn, helped me to gain back my peace and real joy. I am no longer the victim in my story. I am equipped, empowered and unleashed for my greatest purpose.to make on my own.”
 “Every week we worked together I felt like I was chipping away at that pain and it is SO freeing.”
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My marriage is stronger. My children are happier and more regulated. I feel safer in my body and in my relationships than I ever have. I handle the stress of motherhood and marriage so differently. I just feel healthier and more hopeful than I could have ever dreamed. I thank God for Cortney every day.
“The one-on-one's were monumental in helping me unburden trauma, big and small.”
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It has given me a peace and a clearness I never knew I could have. Being heard and seen and supported like I was has made me look at who I spend time with and let fill my soul. Having a safe place to unburden and work through your trauma and all the emotions attached to it is priceless. It is being heard and seen on a whole other level. I can say when I hear Cortney's voice tears come easily because those parts know we are safe.
The good news is, it makes sense why you're feeling stuck.
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